Debunking 5 Wedding Myths for the Modern Bride

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While it’s tempting to plan every detail to perfection, remember that no event ever goes 100% according to plan. And that’s okay! The key is to make your wedding a true reflection of who you are as a couple, rather than following outdated traditions or Pinterest trends that don’t resonate with you. To help you along the way, we’ve debunked some common wedding myths that you can feel free to toss out the window.

Myth #1: Your Wedding Must Be Floral-Heavy

Sure, flowers are beautiful, but your decor doesn’t have to revolve around them. In fact, there are so many other ways to make your venue look stunning. Think about incorporating stylish accents, chic table settings, or even personalized decor that reflects your unique personality. If you still want some floral touches, consider a minimalist approach with strategically placed arrangements that complement your overall vibe without overwhelming it. Charleston Lane has several floral packages to choose from!

Myth #2: You Have to Do the Bouquet and Garter Toss

Nope, not anymore! Most women don’t want to be singled out as “the next to be married” in front of a crowd, and the whole garter toss thing? Let’s just say it’s a bit outdated. Instead, why not hand out single flowers from your bouquet to those you want to honor, or skip these traditions altogether for more time on the dance floor?

Myth #3: Kids Have to Be in the Ceremony

Including kids in your wedding can be adorable, but it’s not a must. Not all little ones are up for the spotlight, and the pressure can be a lot for them. If you’re set on having kids involved, consider asking their parents first and maybe even having an adult guide them down the aisle. But if you’re unsure, it’s totally fine to skip this tradition.

Myth #4: You Have to Wear White

Let’s be real—you should wear whatever makes you feel amazing! If that’s a white dress, go for it. But if you’re drawn to something more colorful or unique, don’t hold back. Whether it’s a bold black gown or a soft blush dress, the important thing is that you feel confident and beautiful on your big day.

Myth #5: You Need a Traditional Bridal Party

While having a bridal party is a sweet way to honor your closest friends, it’s not a requirement. Your friends can still be part of your day without the formal attire and duties. Consider inviting them to get ready with you in the morning, and then let them enjoy the day in whatever they feel comfortable wearing. If you do want a bridal party, consider letting them choose their own outfits in a coordinating color, so they feel great and there’s no “who wore it better” moment.

So there you have it—five wedding "must-do's" that you can totally skip if they don’t feel right for you. Weddings in 2024 are all about personalization and breaking free from tradition, so make your day exactly what you want it to be. We’d love to hear your thoughts—drop a comment on our instagram  page and let’s chat about how you’re making your wedding your own!

Happy planning!